A man who kisses and cuddles with you likely enjoys sharing intimate moments in your company.
Many women value intimacy in relationships, yet they sometimes feel that men don't value that emotional experience. On the contrary -- men can be incredibly intimate creatures. The genders often interpret intimacy differently, however. Only experience and instinct are truly reliable barometers in figuring out his emotions. Thankfully, some telltale signs exist to help you determine the joy he gets from treating you intimately. Many of these indicators revolve around his handling of you as more than just a sexual object.
Instructions
1. Determine if his understandings of what intimacy means chime well with yours. Women typically believe that intimacy is represented with a profound emotional connection, a capacity to cry with one another without difficulty and the ability to intuit how one another feels. Men, on the other hand, find intimacy in solid physical connections, foreplay and the ability to intuit when sexual desire surfaces. The more synchronized your grasp of intimacy, the more likely he may appreciate it with you.
2. Assess how seriously he regards you as a confidant for his concerns. Men who struggle with intimacy frequently joke and kid around in heart-to-heart matters. They may also withhold the expression of emotion and reject discussion of it. If your man looks to you as a source of wisdom and insight in his life, intimacy with you is pleasurable for him.
3. Consider his eye contact with you. A man who truly desires his lady will not fear ogling you with long gazes to your face, not to your cleavage. You may also catch a guy open to intimacy secretly glance at you through the corners of his eyes.
4. Check for signs of his moving you in to stay. Men who intimately value a relationship will accommodate women by, for instance, buying your favorite foods to fill his kitchen or providing you with a drawer or closet space in his apartment. Such men may also freely discuss their future plans with you, and ask about yours in return.
5. Ask yourself if he prizes you. If he's truly into you, he'll want to flaunt you to his friends, showing that he is unabashedly happy about being with you. Nonsexual touch -- hugging, hand holding, caressing -- is a sign that he values you outside of the bedroom. Nicknames, terms of endearment and in side jokes exclusive to you two are other symptoms of a guy's intimacy.
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