Monday, April 25, 2011

Know When To Walk Away From A Friendship







Once relationships turn sour, it can be hard to revive them.


Friendships are often as challenging as they are rewarding. Relationships can turn toxic over time and it is important to not remain in relationships that are not healthy for you. Walking away from a friendship requires diligence and discipline, as it is an ongoing process over time. Knowing when to walk away from a friendship requires introspection as you figure out what is best for you.


Instructions


1. Examine the logistics of the relationship. If someone has just moved away, started a new job or had some other life-altering event, it may not be feasible to maintain the relationship. If the friendship requires more effort to maintain than you are able to offer, you should end the friendship in a pleasant and respectful way.


2. Talk to your friend about any issues in the relationship. If there are problems, see how receptive your friend is to repairing them. If your friend seems genuinely willing to address and fix the problems you two have, give him the chance to do so. If he is not respectful of your feelings or willing to try addressing concerns, end the friendship.


3. Discuss your feelings and concerns with other friends and family. It is often difficult to have a clear perception of a relationship when you are in it. People close to you can offer advice and useful opinions on whether the other person is a good friend to you.


4. Exit the relationship immediately if there is physical or emotional abuse. The relationship may be salvageable later, if the other person seeks counseling and outside help, but don't stay in a friendship that is abusive.

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